We often push thoughts of death aside, hoping to delay discomfort. But beneath the fear lies something else: a longing to understand how to die well — and how to live more fully because we have learnt to die. In this week’s episode of The Workshop podcast, Alain de Botton and John Armstrong explore two ancient ideals around death: one that calls for calm acceptance, and another that urges passionate resistance. And then, they offer a third way: one that neither surrenders nor rages, but tries to meet death with clarity, courage, and care. | | | About The Workshop Podcast The Workshop is our behind-the-scenes podcast: a quiet, sincere conversation between philosophers Alain de Botton and John Armstrong. Each episode explores how philosophy meets everyday life — love, work, friendship, and, this week, our relationship to death. Our App Subscribers have especially resonated with: | A discussion on the roots of confidence, why it varies so widely, and how cultivating more of it can transform our lives.
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